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Toronto Portrait Photographer || HEARTshots || Black + White Photography

Memoirs and musings of Darius Bashar. Toronto portrait photographer and writer, in pursuit of all things real, raw and intimate. 

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Seth Godin Spelled My Name Wrong
 

Mistakes happen. No one is perfect because perfection is a myth. It doesn’t exist and never has. It’s a fictional creature that gobbles up your creative energy and robs you of your joy. Like an energy vampire that sucks out your creativity.

I learned this lesson yesterday in the most amazing way.

My dear friend and business coach Giovanni Marsico surprised me during a Zoom call yesterday by letting me know one of my all-time favourite authors, the legendary Seth Godin used one of my photos in his newest book.

What an amazing surprise.

Seth has a library of photos he could of used, but he chose my photo. What an absolute honour.

I was riding cloud nine… then I noticed my last name was misspelled.

What a bummer.

I was upset for maybe a minute, then I started to smile, and then before I knew it I was literally laughing out loud.

In that moment I knew this typo was not an accident. This was a clever gift from the Universe.

It was a beautiful lesson for me to take with me on my own artist journey.

Here’s the lesson.

If a 20 time best selling author, who is clearly a legend in his category can make a mistake on the jacket of his book, then I can bring my own expectations for my own work down a whole bunch.

What a gift this typo turned out to be. A reminder to be gentler and more compassionate with myself. Even with the best of intentions, inevitably there will be mistakes, typos, misspeakings, and things that fall through the cracks. It’s bound to happen.

When these things happen, I will do my best to own the mistake, see the lesson and do better in the future. I will also do my best to laugh and be gentle with myself. I will not let the mythical creature called perfection steal my energy or my joy.

Thank you Seth for this gift. Thank you for choosing my photo and for the truly wonderful experience I had during our photoshoot.

And of course thank you Gio for believing in me and giving me the opportunity to take my photography to the next level by working with living legends like Seth.

Big love,

D